FAQs & Funeral Rule on Urns & Caskets

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Frequently Asked Questions:


How do I know what size urn to buy? Each pound of weight equals one cubic inch. If your loved one weighted 150 lbs, you need an urn that is 150 cubic inches. You will find the cubic inches of each urn on the description page of every urn you see. The same rule applies to pets.

What is a keepsake, and a shared urn? A keepsake holds a small amount of cremains. A shared urn can also be a keepsake, but is not kept. It is a small shattering urn, where a number of people have an urn and share in the experience of scattering. Some families purchase shared urns to take to different places and scatter as well.

Does the jewelry hold ashes? Yes, every piece of cremation jewelry we offer holds cremains.

When can I expect my order? We usually ship same day, free shipping ground UPS for full sized urns and USPS free shipping for keepsakes. Most urns and keepsakes ship from California.

Can I get overnight delivery? Yes, you can, call for a quote for any expedited shipping requirements, 800-757-3488.

Do you ship outside of the USA? Yes, we have free shipping to Canada and we will quote to all other countries. Call 800-757-3488 for more information.

Can I return an urn or keepsake? Yes, you can, we have a 365 day return policy. There is a 15% restocking fee for returns, mainly because of our free shipping policy.

I don’t want to fill the urn, can someone do this for me? We can ship directly to the crematorium or funeral home and they often will fill the keepsakes and urn as a courtesy. Or you can have a family member do it for you.

I am concerned about putting the cremains in the urn and sealing it, how do I do that? Cremains are non-toxic and will not harm you. If you are ready to fill the urn, just remove the plastic bag of cremains from the temporary contain and place in the urn. If you wish to seal it, you can use an adhesive.

What type of urns are approved for travel? Almost any type of cremation urn will pass through an airport x-ray machine, except for a lead lined urn. We do not carry any like that, so all urns will be fine. Bring any paperwork you have been given by the crematorium, it could be helpful. Most crematoriums also seal the plastic bag with a twist tie and they attach a metal coin, which identifies the cremains. Which offers further proof of the contents.

What type of urns are burial urns? Any urn can be buried, but cemeteries will have their own rules. They may require a vault, this is usually required if they feel the urn could breakdown in time and cause the ground to sink in. We offer them.

What is the Funeral Federal Rule? It is against Federal Law for a funeral home to refuse a casket purchased elsewhere. Any funeral home that refuses to accept a casket from a family is subject to a fine of $10,000 per incident from the Federal Trade Commission. They would also be subject to any civil damages resulting from any complaint filed by the family for emotional distress for refusing to accept the casket, refusing to perform the funeral service or charging the family anything extra because they exercised their right to comparison shop.

For water burial at sea, how far do I need to be out in the ocean? Things are changing so quickly in this regard. Three miles out, was the norm for many years, but in San Francisco, it is accepted to scatter ashes in the bay. It is best to ask in your area.

Can I scatter in a national park? Before scattering cremains on any one’s property, including the government’s it is best to ask.

My family member weighted over 400lbs. What can I do, most urns are for people 220lbs?
You could buy a companion urn, for two people, or you can buy the urn that you really like and with the rest of the cremains, there are endless possibilities. You could use a Peaceful Pillow Water Burial Urn, or just scatter the urns without one. You could place half the ashes in a velvet bag and place in his wife’s casket, when she passes. Or inter where the couple’s final resting place has been planned.



CHANGES TOWARD CREMATION

The construction of the first crematory in the United States was in 1876 in Pennsylvania. Between 1876 and 1900 cremations represented less than 1% of deaths.
Today, 23 percent of the deaths in the United States result in cremation, and by the year 2010, it is predicated that 42 percent of Americans will choose cremation.
Research from the Cremation Association of North America highlights 8 trends that contribute to the increase in cremation:

1. Increasing life expectancy.
2. Increasing migration to retirement locations.
3. Diminishing regional differences.
4. Changing origins of immigrants.
5. Rising educational level.
6. Cremation is becoming more acceptable as a normal form of preparation for final disposition.
7. Less ties to tradition.
8. Environmental considerations.

Some states are very liberal in their attitudes towards scattering. After the necessary paperwork is filed with the county, in the state of Colorado, it's legal to bury a loved one in a pine box in the back yard or scatter his cremains from the top of a Fourteener, as long as the property owner allows it.

URN SIZE & PURPOSES

Cremation Urns can be used to hold ashes for interring, either in a cemetery niche or at home, scattering or both. The minimum urn size should be no less than 200 cubic inches. The Cremation Association of North America (CANA) has determined that 200 cubic inches is the standard size. All of our standard urns exceed that requirement. Our Companion Urns (double), hold up to 600 cubic inches, well above CANA's standards. To measure for sizing: One cubic inch equals one pound of body weight.

Mementos, such as a lock of hair, a letter, a small piece of clothing, a baseball, jewelry, or wedding rings, can be placed in the urn as a memoriam of remembrance for your loved one. If ashes are scattered, a permanent place of remembrance can still be made either at home at a cemetery.

Keepsakes and keepsake jewelry urns are to keep a very small amount of cremains "as a keepsake". Some keepsakes can accommodate a lock of hair or letter, rings. etc. Often, children of a parent who has passed may want a keepsake, also spouses, friends and parent's of a deceased child.

WHAT IS CREMATION?

The dictionary defines cremation as a process of incinerating the body of a dead person. It has also been defined as a rapid rate of oxidation accelerated by intense heat.
Before the cremation process takes place, certain medical devices and/or implants must be removed from the body. These many include pacemakers, prosthesis, mechanical and radioactive devices materials, or other implants. Not removing these items could cause damage to the cremation chamber or to crematory personnel.
Today, bodies to be cremated are placed in cardboard or wooden containers. Embalming prior to cremation is not necessary and it is against the law for a consumer to be told that the body must be embalmed first in the United States.
Depending on state and local laws, there may be a waiting period of up to 48 hours from the time of death before the human remains may be cremated. Many state laws require a waiting period of 24 hours.
The casket or container and the body are placed into the cremation chamber and consumed by the intense heat and flames. The temperature ranges between 1400 and 2100 degrees Fahrenheit.
All soft tissue are vaporized, and the skeletal body framework is reduced to bone fragments and particles. The bone particles removed from the chamber vary in size and shape and may be mechanically processed, or ground down, to reduce them to a manageable consistency for placement into an urn.
The time required for cremation to be completed may vary depending upon the weight and the size of the person. Generally cremation takes 2 to 4 hours, with a cooling period of an additional 2 to 5 hours.
Cremated remains normally weigh between four and eight pounds. This can vary depending on the individual. The cremated remains will be placed in an urn or cremated remains container that you provide.You can request that the ashes be put into a few small urn containers for family members, or a single large urn or even a portion in a dissolving urns and some in an urn, which can be interned.


TRAVEL FRIENDLY URNS

Our urns have passed Homeland Security requirements and are scanable for safety at the airport. We can not guarantee that your urn will not be required to be opened, as the security department at each airport may choose at any time, to require any container to be opened.



FEDERAL RULE
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It is against Federal Law for a funeral home to refuse a casket purchased elsewhere. Any funeral home that refuses to accept a casket from a family is subject to a fine of $10,000 per incident from the Federal Trade Commission. They would also be subject to any civil damages resulting from any complaint filed by the family for emotional distress for refusing to accept the casket, refusing to perform the funeral service or charging the family anything extra because they exercised their right to comparison shop.



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