| Funeral Phrases & Words of Sympathy
Terms we use today in our modern life's, that have effected us from
the funeral Industry are:
Saved by the Bell: This was the custom of tying a string to the toe of the deceased with a bell on the end, if the bell rang, the deceased was not dead and therefore avoided being buried alive.
Wake: Originally started again, as a way to be sure the deceased was indeed deceased. Family or friend would stay awake and watch the body.
The Graveyard Shift: Working in the graveyard, at night, no surprise here.
Time Heals All Wounds: Wise saying, but maybe not an accurate one. Some times we can only hope that time will heal a grieving heart.
What do you say to family members when someone has passed away? Here are some thoughtful and accepted comments for relatives, friends, or acquaintances to make:
You have my deepest sympathy
He/She was a wonderful person
He/She will be missed
If there is anything we can do, let's us know
Our thoughts and prayers are with you
You are in our hearts
I am deeply sorry for your loss
But sometimes even the simplest comment and cause pain, such as "I know how you are feeling". Maybe you do, and maybe you don't, but to a grieving person, this probably makes no sense.
In addition to the comments above, you will find a wealth of information
at the links on this page. If you should not find the information
you need on the website, please contact In The Light Urns' staff
directly at (800) 757-3488 or email service@inthelighturns.com.
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