By Susan Fraser -May 07,2015
These days, people are not surprised when loved ones say they want to be cremated when they die. Cremation is becoming more popular due to the options it opens up for families, lower cost and accommodations from religion and local organizations. In only a few years, most Americans will find it the perfect choice for them. Current Trends Anyone who has gone to a funeral home to pre-plan a funeral has likely observed that the number of institutions promoting cremation services is on the rise. As the number of available plots at cemeteries becomes scarcer over the years, people have had to reconsider cremation as an option. The evidence shows that more families are turning to cremation as the best selection. In its 2012 report, the Cremation Association of North America (CANA) noted that cremation is likely to become the preferred method for people to plan for the disposition of their remains by 2017. In some states in the U.S., cremation is already the majority. In Canada, cremation has been the default choice since 2007. Now, cremation approaches a two-thirds majority in the country, demonstrating that millions of people are finding cremation to be far more than just an alternative. Cost What explains this radically changing trend? Although some consider finances to be a foolish reason to make a decision about one’s final remains, CANA claims that cost is a major factor for 30 percent of people who ultimately make the decision to have their remains cremated. Lack of funds drives a large number of decisions, and many people simply cannot afford to pre-purchase a burial plot or a casket for a traditional burial. Cremation typically costs around $3,200 for all relevant services, compared to $9,000 or more for a traditional burial. When dollars count, an expense that is one-third the cost of burial makes a great deal of sense to an increasing number of people. Transport The immense flexibility of cremation in terms of the storage and disposition of cremated remains, as well as the available options for memorial services, makes cremation a far more appealing choice. In 2013, the Deseret News noted that many U.S. immigrants find cremation the right option because it greatly simplifies the process of transporting their remains to their home countries. The free ability to move the ashes to another location is a much-lauded quality of cremation services. While intact bodies certainly can and are moved from one location to another for burial, the process is far more complicated. Ashes weigh only a few pounds and can be transported easily by plane or car. While moving a body requires trained officials with the right permits, relocating ashes for final disposition typically only requires the proper container. Scheduling Memorial Services This flexibility in transport also translates into the opportunities available for scattering or burying ashes, and the memorial services that are typically held at that time. Funerals and burials usually must be held within a week of a person’s death. Even with embalming, intact bodies deteriorate quickly. By comparison, ashes will not deteriorate, even over centuries. This allows families to make arrangements to scatter or bury ashes, and hold a wonderful memorial service on their own terms. For example, if a loved one died in the middle of a harsh winter, relatives and friends may choose to wait for a better time to hold an outdoor ceremony. Creativity Ultimately, cremation makes it easier for individuals and families to plan their final wishes according to their needs and interests, not based on the limitations of proximity and time. People can have their ashes scattered or buried in almost every imaginable location, from scattering by plane to burial deep in the sea. The choices for cremation urns are surprisingly varied, with options in traditional, natural and whimsical styles available to suit almost any preference. Most people recognize that funerals and memorial services are for families and friends to say goodbye. Simply put, cremation allows hosts to more accurately and creatively bring out the beauty and personality of the person they lost. Removed Barriers With all these benefits, some people wonder why cremation is not already the default selection. The answer is that there have been barriers to cremation in the past, which have been removed by time and advocacy. In the past, people might not have chosen to be cremated because it was not offered to them as a viable choice. Now, funeral homes are happy to suggest it, with options for services, urns for ashes and plans for memorial services. Since many major religions have relaxed their rules barring faithful members from being cremated and put to rest by religious rites, more and more people can make this more freeing choice. At the end of the day, people want more decision-making power over their final wishes. With lower costs, flexibility in transporting ashes and greater creativity in planning for the remains, families find that cremation is no longer simply a burial alternative.
The point that you made about how cremation being a cheaper option compared to other alternatives was very helpful to me. I had no idea that it was so cost effective to cremate loved ones who have passed. Due to your advice, I will be sure to look into local cremation services.
Thanks for the information. My wife and I have been discussing the pros and cons of burial and cremation. i like your section on creativity. Being cremated can show a little more individuality than just being buried. I think that it would be a great way for my family to remember me.
I've been thinking about writing a will and was wondering if I should include the fact that I want to be cremated when I die. I like that you mention how easy it is to transport ashes to the service as opposed to a full casket. This is just one of the reasons I want to be cremated because it'll make the service much easier on everyone. Thanks for sharing!
I found this article about choosing cremation interesting, and informative. I thought that it was interesting that cremation cost less than a traditional burial. For a family that does not have a lot of money, that tip could really work for them.
I had never thought of it much, but it makes sense that cremation would be cheaper, by almost three times! I didn't know that it was becoming more common in our society which I think is interesting. I also don't know much about other religions other than my own, but I didn't know there were rules that had to be followed, but I think it's cool it's more acceptable. This is good to know info for when the time comes.
You get a lot of respect from me for writing these helpful arstilec.
Wow, I had no idea that cremation costs around $3,200 compared to a traditional at $9,000. I had a friend whose mother passed away, and they had her cremated. I think it's great that there are more options for our loved ones that can help us financially as well.
I couldn't agree more with the article. My company offers ocean scatterings for families. There are so many reasons to choose this path.
I think cremation is an interesting thing, and this article has cleared up some stuff. I was not aware that the cost was cheaper than a regular funeral. I will have to look up other benefits about cremation.
For me, I would want to be cremated. What's so appealing about it to me is that it would be cheaper for my survivors, and therefore less of a burden to go through the funeral process. Also, I would be dead, and I wouldn't care when I'm dead what kind of casket I would be in. An urn would be in better taste in my opinion. Thanks for sharing.
I've been seeing a lot of posts of people wanting to be cremated and have their ashes buried under a tree. It's very beautiful to think and imagine visiting your loved ones as you see those trees grow it's like seeing them having a life again. It's nice to know that cremation costs lower than the traditional burials.