Methods of Scattering Ashes

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When planning memorial ceremonies for a loved one, people have to decide what to do with the persons cremated remains. Cremation presents several unique methods to give the remains a final rest. Many families opt to scatter the ashes in a variety of ways, depending on their cultural and religious preferences, as well as their loved ones final wishes. This article covers six different ways to scatter or bury ashes, including casting, burial in a trench, raking, scattering over water, aerial scattering and green burial.

Although there are certainly rules and laws regulating the disposition of ashes on land, water or in the air, your choices are largely left up to your own discretion. So, if loved ones wanted to have their ashes scattered at sea, or buried in a favorite place, chances are likely that they will get their wishes. Some people prefer to scatter ashes instead of keeping them exclusively at home or placing them in a cemetery’s columbarium. Here we will identify the many unique ways these families choose to give a final send off.

The beauty of the cremation memorial is that it is often unbound by social conventions. As such, families can choose precisely how they want to carry out the proceedings, with as much formality or as little as they like. These ideas for scattering and burial ceremonies should always come with the loved one and those left to grieve in mind. From the selection of urns to the ceremonies conclusion, you will find that you have the utmost license to make choices that give you peace.

Urns for Scattering and Burial

At present, anyone who browses for urns for scattering, burial or as a keepsake might be surprised by the wonderful variety available. Urns are made from a wide selection of materials, including glass, porcelain, bronze, sand, wood and many biodegradable materials. When purchasing urns, families should consider all their plans for the ashes. If you intend to scatter or bury the ashes completely, you may only need one urn. Urns that will remain with the family following the scattering ceremony can be as unique and individual as the loved one you honor. Many urns feature themes like sports, automobiles or natural symbols that memorialize a loved one’s interests in life. Likewise, urns are available in different materials, shapes and sizes to suit your taste, and some offer an opportunity to display a photo of your loved one or your family.

During a trenching or green burial ceremony, families should choose urns that will biodegrade fully. Natural urns come in different shapes and styles, incorporating features like artwork or other attributes that reflect the deceased’s own personal interests or a nature theme. They range from box and pillow designs composed of 100 percent biodegradable materials to urns made of sweet grass and palm.

Although complete scattering or burial is a popular option, plenty of families choose to reserve a portion of the ashes as a keepsake or to share with other relatives and friends. Small keepsake urns hold a minute amount of ashes, and are as enigmatic as can be. You might select small urns cast in the same shape as the urn used for burial. Or, the family may choose to have the ashes put into memorial jewelry or ornaments to give to those left behind. The most important thing is to choose the urn or keepsake that suits the family’s needs, as well as the style of the person who has passed.

Casting

casting cremated remains Casting is one of the most popular and longstanding methods of memorializing a loved one. Casting refers to the scattering of a deceased’s ashes, over the water, on the ground or into the air. The location where casting occurs varies between ceremonies. Ashes may be cast over the ocean, near a vacation spot that has special meaning, or into the air as a symbolic “letting go,” freeing the spirit to travel to a life beyond.

The History of Casting

Casting was a popular practice among both the Ancient Greeks and Romans. Excavations and ancient texts reveal that in the Ancient Greek city of Lefkandi, friends and loved ones customarily scattered a small amount of the cremated ashes across the ground as a memorial service to the departed.

Perhaps one of the most recognizable traditional uses of casting, still in practice today, is the ancient Hindu rite of scattering cremated remains in the Ganges River. In the Hindu faith, being cast into the Ganges is very desirable, and permanent pyre supports line the river in some holy cities. Similarly in Bali, high-ranking people and other people deemed worthy enough are cremated on special towers, with the remains scattered across the water.

Modern Casting Ceremonies

Most casting ceremonies begin with a brief speech or eulogy, music or a poetry reading. Some prefer to recite passages or personal memories while casting the ashes over the ground, water or into the air. Many take photos to serve as keepsakes afterwards. Depending on where you hold the ceremony, candles and photos may be used to personalize the service. Or, a wreath or individual flowers could be placed into water along with the ashes. Some loved ones mix the ashes with wild flower seeds or birdseed before casting them, to add a touch of the natural environment.

Casting can also be performed from a boat or, in some cases, from the air via a privately chartered plane or helicopter. Before scattering ashes openly in a public place, contact local officials to find out about community regulations, as a means to ensure that your memorial is as beautiful as you intend.

Trenching

trenching ashes Unlike the act of scattering the ashes gently on the ground, water or air, some families prefer to trench their loved ones remains. In a trenching ceremony, a shallow trench or pit is dug in the ground, often in a place of remembrance. Once the trench is dug, the cremated remains are placed in the trench and then covered over with soil. Trenching may be performed by a funeral services director or the family, depending on the regulations for disposing of ashes in your area and your own individual preferences.

History of Trenching

As with casting, trenchings popularity also extends deep into the past. From 1000 B.C. to 750 B.C., the Greeks used trenching almost exclusively in their final ceremonies. Ashes of the deceased were placed in special urns called amphora. In the earliest ceremonies, the urn was placed in the center of the trench. Pyre debris was swept into the hole beside it before being covered with earth. In later ceremonies, a separate, deeper hole for the amphora was dug at one end of the trench. These later designs were known as trench-and-hole cremations.

Throughout most of the Roman Empire, cremating was mainstream, with many families choosing to bury cremated remains in a trench or pit afterward. Excavations at Roman settlements in Britain indicate that ashes were often placed in wooden buckets, and were sometimes accompanied by objects and personal belongings before being buried in trenches.

Modern Trenching Ceremonies

Today’s trenching ceremonies are highly personal memorials, as varied as the land. Families often choose to add their own touches to the trenching service, forming shallow trenches in the shape of the deceased’s initials, a heart or a short message before scattering the ashes inside and covering it with soil. They might display a keepsake or biodegradable urn during the service, before the ashes are put in the trench.

Trenching is also popular along beaches, where the rising tide is allowed to gently wash the remains to sea. Ceremonies may be timed to coincide with the tide to allow loved ones to watch as the remains return to the sea. Many people decide to take photos of the ceremony or to encircle the area with candles, both of which can be distributed as keepsakes. They may join hands around the trench and recite a poem or recall memories that they will never forget.

Raking

While many people choose to scatter cremated remains or bury them in the earth, many prefer to incorporate the ashes lightly into the soil. This way, the ashes may contribute to the environment by providing nutrients for flowers and other plants. This process is known as raking.

History of Raking

Archeological excavations reveal that while ancient civilizations buried complete urns, they also sometimes incorporated the ashes back into the soil. Far back in history, cremation rites and rituals varied markedly from one province or settlement to another. Raking provided a way to return the loved one’s remains to the earth for all eternity. Raking may have been especially important to more nomadic groups, where deeper pit burials were unwarranted and carrying ashes would have proven too cumbersome.

Modern Raking Ceremonies

Today, raking ceremonies rely heavily on symbolism to promote understanding. Many ceremonies take place in scattering grounds known as “memory gardens,” places set aside by communities, religious institutions and public cemeteries for the specific purpose of scattering, trenching or raking ashes. As an alternative, beach locations are popular, as they allow the remains to be washed to sea. For any location, check local laws before holding a raking ceremony, to ensure you do not run afoul of local laws.

Raking may be performed by a spouse or child, or by friends and loved ones of the deceased. This offers an opportunity to pay respects and achieve a sense of closure for everyone involved. Depending on where the ceremony takes place, some family members may wish to scatter seeds along with the ashes to provide a living memory. Some families like to maintain a degree of the traditional during the ceremony, with music, eulogies or poetry readings. Others take pictures and notes from guests to create a memory book for the grieving family. Many memory gardens offer opportunities to erect stones or other memorials, including benches or bird feeders. Following the ceremony, you may choose to keep or donate the rake to a community gardening program.

Scattering Over Water

water-burial-cremation-serviceWater is a symbol of infinity, traveling in a continual loop from the earth’s surface up to the heaves through evaporation and then falling once again to earth as rain or snow. The idea of returning ones ashes to the water is appealing, given the importance of water in many historic and modern cultures and religions. This method of scattering involves depositing the ashes directly on the surface of a large body of water, or through the use of a water safe, biodegradable urn.

History of Scattering Over Water

From a cultural standpoint, scattering a loved one’s ashes over the water is often considered a symbolic representation of the ethereal spirit being carried away from the constraints of the physical body. It has a long history, especially in Asian cultures. Hinduism teaches that the goddess Ganga descended from heaven to save the spirits of the dead from the netherworld. Her path from heaven to earth also provides a path for the deceased to enter heaven. Committing the ashes of the deceased to the Ganges River in India enables people to begin their journey to the next life. Likewise in Tibet, scattering ashes over a lake or stream has held great traditional significance for Buddhists. As remains slowly dissolve into the water, they release the spirits of the dead so they may ascend into heaven.

Modern Ceremonies

Scattering ashes over the water is usually done by boat or air, or at the water’s edge. When done from a boat, plane or helicopter, the boat, aircraft operator or other officiant performs the scattering. Of course, some families may elect to pilot their own boats or planes, when a private pilot is also a family member. As with any type of public ash dispersal, you may want to contact local authorities before casting the ashes over water to make sure you are compliant with laws and regulations.

Many ceremonies include poems, music or spontaneous recitations or comments by those in attendance. Lighting candles or casting flowers, petals or wreaths on the water along with the ashes are lovely choices, as well. Taking photos or video of the ceremony to send to each person involved is a thoughtful way to honor your loved one long after the scattering ceremony ends.

Aerial Scattering

Like scattering over water, aerial scattering involves the dispersal of a loved one’s ashes over a larger area. This method has grown in popularity in recent years as more people look for ways to cast ashes over a wider geographic area or location. Aerial scattering of ashes can be done by plane, helicopter, hang glider or even hot air balloon. Some people use skydivers to disperse ashes over a specific area.

History of Aerial Scattering

Scattering ashes by air is a relatively modern concept since it relies on air travel technology to be completed. While once the purview of private or military pilots and their families, today aerial scattering is the choice of many men and women who wish to have their ashes truly become dust in the wind. Traditionally, aerial scattering has been the preferred method chosen by many former military members, especially from the same type of aircraft they once piloted or flew in. In 2014, one World War II veteran had his ashes scattered from a B-25 bomber, the same type of aircraft he piloted for more than 50 missions in the South Pacific during World War II.

Modern Aerial Scattering Ceremonies

Aerial ash scattering is much more widely available now than it was even a few decades ago. Some ash scattering service providers offer flights over historic landmarks, parks or other areas. A family that enjoyed happy memories vacationing in a national park, at the seashore or in another location may find comfort in having their loved one’s ashes scattered by air over the area.

Ceremonies for aerial scattering often begin with a small service on the ground, most commonly at the airport prior to take off. In some cases, one or more family members may decide to accompany the ashes during the flight, while others may leave the flight to the pilot and any additional crew. Some pilots release ashes directly from the cockpit while others may use funnel or tube devices to release them from the outside of the plane. Lower flights or dispersal from hot air balloons, gliders or skydivers usually do not disperse over as wide an area.

While some ceremonies are held in view of the ash release location, a few aerial services involve releasing the ashes in remote areas that cannot be viewed from the ground. Some aerial scattering companies will take photographs of the ashes as they are released or a certificate noting the date and time of release, to provide a lasting memento of the ceremony for loved ones to cherish.

Green Burial

green burialAs peoples thoughts turn to their concern for the environment, more families seek earth-friendly alternatives for the final disposition of cremated remains. Green burials use biodegradable materials that naturally dissolve into the soil over time. In recent years, people have enjoyed green burials as a way to reconnect with the earth and decrease their impact on the environment. When you select a cremation without embalming, combined with a biodegradable urn, you help honor your loved ones commitment to improving the natural world.

History of Green Burials

The origin of green burials is as old as mankind. Long before there were embalming fluids, bodies were laid to rest in the soil where they gradually decomposed over time in a manner that nurtures the soil and all living things. During the Renaissance, scientific researchers began studying forms of embalming as a way to preserve organs for scientific study. But, it was not until the nineteenth century that embalming became commonplace. Even then, embalming initially was used simply as a way to preserve the body for transport back to the deceased’s home for final interment. Over time, many communities began requiring embalming, believed to prevent the spread of certain diseases after death. Green burials do not employ embalming chemicals, to provide a more natural decomposition.

Modern Ceremonies

Modern green burial ceremonies often incorporate many of the same rituals and practices as traditional burial services, including eulogies and hymns. They may begin with a gathering to remember the deceased, similar to a viewing ceremony. The funeral service itself could be designed to suit your loved one’s wishes, as well as those of you and your family. At the end of the ceremony, you may want to invite all those in attendance to the grave site for a graveside ceremony. Or, you may reserve that option for family members and other close friends. Some families choose to hold a simple service at the graveside, without a funeral service.

Depending on the location of the burial, you might consider providing flower seeds for attendees to spread on top of the site once the urn is interred, much as flowers are placed on top of a casket in a more traditional ceremony. Many families use candles or release doves or butterflies during the ceremony. In lieu of flowers, ceremony hosts often ask friends and family to donate to nature charities or to provide bags of pet food to local animal shelters. Some green burial sites offer opportunities for donations to fund tree plantings, birdhouses or benches. If the ultimate goal is to promote a better world, contributing to new growth is a wonderful way to close the ceremony.

Conclusion

As with funerals, scattering and burial ceremonies are an important rite of passage for the family. Whether families choose casting, trenching, raking, scattering over water, aerial scattering or a green burial, the ultimate goal is to give everyone a chance to say good-bye as the ashes are put in their final resting place. The sending of ashes back to the natural world through one of these methods is the most symbolic act of the cyclical nature of life. In the end, the ceremony and scattering provides loved ones with the closure they need to move forward through the grieving process, with beautiful memories of the one they leave behind.

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    Thanks for talking about the beauty of a casting ceremony to scatter the ashes of a deceased loved one. I would imagine that traveling to a memorable, historic, or religious location to scatter the ashes would add to the beauty of the ceremony. I am sure there are charter buses available for just such an expedition.

  2. Jacky
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    I appreciate the well-worded details, but please consider changing the wording in the “Trenching” section from “disposing of ashes” to “interring ashes.” Cremated remains are not disposed of.

  3. Mimi Sherman
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    Thank you for the education. Now I must find the info about the regulations in several states.






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    Hello Mimi,

    Each state has its own rules and regulations regarding scattering a loved one’s cremains. Which states are you looking to scatter? For example, the majority of states do not allow people to scatter cremains on beaches or rivers. However, California allows cremains to be scattered 500 yards from a beach. National Parks are also popular options and are favored to be more accommodating. Traveling with an urn can also stir up questions. All of our urns are TSA approved, just contact your airline for further instructions regarding urn travel.

    Sincerely,
    Susan Fraser


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    Hello Jacky, After reading over the blog again I see where your coming from and do agree a better choice of word could have been used instead of the word “disposing”. Thank you for pointing this out.

    Sincerely,
    Susan Fraser


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